With no real system, you improvise. A bit more cream. An oil on top. Another video, another tip, another product in the basket.
Every time, it ends up greasier and flatter than before. And you finish the day back at the mirror, half-convinced your hair is just difficult — that other women have some knack you were born without.
You weren't. Wavy hair gets lighter to lift, never heavier to hold. Every product you piled on was quietly working against the wave. The answer was never more. It was the right things, light, in the right order.